1.They look and find the opportunities where others see nothing .

2.They  find a lesson while others only see a problem.

 3. They are solution focused.

4. They consciously and methodically create their own success, while others hope success will find them

5. they are fearful like everyone else, but they are controlled or limited by fear.

6. they ask the right questions- the ones that put them in a productive, create, positive, mindset and emotional state.

7. they rarely complain ( waste energy). All complaining dose is put the complainer in a negative and unproductive state.  

8. They don’t blame ( whats the point?) They take complete responsibility for their actions and outcomes ( or lack th